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Choking and Elderly Parents: First Aid First, Then What About Anti-Choking Devices?

Step 1: Learn the standard first aid (it's free)

For an adult who can't cough, speak or breathe (American Red Cross, MedlinePlus): 1. Have someone call 911. 2. Give 5 back blows: lean the person forward and strike firmly between the shoulder blades with the heel of your hand. 3. Give 5 abdominal thrusts: put your fist just above the navel, cover it with your other hand, and pull inward and upward. 4. Repeat 5 and 5 until the object comes out or the person can cough, speak or breathe. 5. If the person becomes unresponsive, lower them to the floor and start CPR. Look in the mouth before giving breaths, and remove an object only if you can see it. Never do a blind finger sweep.

If the person is coughing forcefully, let them cough and stay with them (MedlinePlus).

Adjustments for very elderly parents

Step 2: What about suction devices (LifeVac, Dechoker)?

Here's what the evidence says:

Our view: A device is at most a backup after back blows and thrusts fail. It's never a replacement for learning them. If you buy one, keep it where meals happen and make sure every caregiver has practiced with it.

Step 3: Reduce the risk at meals

If your parent coughs or clears their throat often during meals, ask their doctor about a swallowing evaluation with a speech-language pathologist, who can recommend food textures and eating strategies that fit them.

Sources

Not medical advice. Take a hands-on first aid/CPR class. Affiliate disclosure: we may earn a commission on purchases through links on this page.

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